Brenda was my forever friend. We were friends from first grade through high school and roommates in college. Our lives have always intertwined. We talked on the phone almost every day. Brenda and I were always there for each other, during happy, fun times and also sad times. She was so very talented and had so much insight and wisdom. I learned much from her over the years. She had a beautiful way with words and gave such good advice. She was a wonderful decorator (she could take something ugly that she would find at Goodwill or Habitat and turn it into something beautiful), a remarkable cook, writer, organizer, gardener, teacher, mom, grandmother and so much more. Brenda was one of the most thoughtful people I have ever known. Countless times I have gone to my front porch and there would be a beautifully arranged tray of something delicious she had made, a lovely vase of flowers and perhaps a book she thought I would enjoy. I was blessed to have Brenda in my life for 73 years. I will think of her every day, and I will miss her every day. Isla
