Bob Schoenfeld
An incredible power left this world.
You had so much... So much laughter, humor, friendship, hope, strength and love.
More important, you couldn’t hold on to it. Sharing, helping, giving, loving and always knowing that little thing, whatever it was, that could comfort those around you when they needed it. Your strength could not be measured. When you needed it the most for yourself, you could still provide it to those around you.
A power that will not leave this world.
Although it was 100 years ago in 1922 when Margery Williams wrote this, it seems like she wrote it for you…
"What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. "Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?"
"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real."
"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.
"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."
"Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or bit by bit?"
"It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in your joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."
…but once you are Real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always."
Lyn, by countless people, you are REAL and it will last for always.
You have been sorely missed these past 7 years yet your legacy lives on in your family as well as so many others whose lives you touched. You are forever part of our family. I don’t have the words to explain the enormous effect you had/have on my own life.
Bill, thank you for coming into her life and cherishing Lyn so. She deserved this and you provided it well through so much pain in both your lives. Thank you for being her bright spot though it all.
Tom, thank you for so proudly carrying on her legacy. I’m sure she is incredibly proud of the person you have become and the family you have created. Rightly so.
I will always love you my forever Friend!
-Bob