Lisa
So sorry for the loss of your loved one, my thoughts and prayers are with the family. What has brought me comfort during these times is from God's word the bible. At John 5:28,29 Jehovah God gives us a promise, it says " Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." We can have complete confidence in God's promise.
Lisa