Death date: Feb 6, 2017
Rory Kai Allender, 19 months old, of Charlotte, passed away on February 5, 2017. Survivors include his parents Brock and Mandy Allender; siblings, Ronan, Ruby and Ryder; grandparents, Nancy and Jerry Osmond and Jane and Ted Allen Read Obituary
Brock, Ted and Jane,
Kyle told me about your loss and I am so sorry to hear about it. You may or may not remember us but Kyle and Brock played on Johnson's soccer team some 20 years ago. Good memories back then for sure. May God help all of heal in your time of mourning.
Mike Hall
To The Allender Family,
Death leaves a heartache that only Almighty God can heal, Love leaves precious memories that no one can steal. May, "the God of all comfort," be with you and your family during this time of sorrow. 2 Corinthians 1:3. With Heartfelt Regret,
My sincere deep sympathy to Allender's family. When a mate losses a husband or wife they are called widower or widow. When a child losses a parent they are called an orphan.
But there is no name, no word connected to a parent losing a child. A pain that is indescribable.
Our caring and loving creator gives hope and comfort. The hope of seeing our loved ones again (Acts 24;15) (John 11:25, 26).
I am so very sorry for your loss.
My condolences on the tragic loss of your precious child. Know many are holding your family up in love and prayers during this difficult time.
If tears could build a stairway
And memories a lane
I'd walk right up to heaven
And bring you down again.
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before I knew it
And only God knows why.
My heart still aches in sadness
And secret years still flow
What it meant to lose you
Noone will ever know.
Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
I will keep you in
My thoughts and in my heart
Allenders,
May you remember always that you are surrounded by love. What you are feeling must be undescribable and I pray deeply for peace and light to shine upon you again.
"Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die."
Dear Allender family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your little baby. I couldn't imagine the pain that your feeling. Im sure the pain will linger, but God's word provides us comfort through His promises for the future. "He will swallow up death forever, and the Sovereign Lord Jehovah will wipe away the tears from all faces. The reproach of his people he will take away from all the earth, for Jehovah himself has spoken it" - Isaiah 25:8. I hope this promise will help your family endure through this difficult time.
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your son. When we lose someone in death, the pain, the grief and the feeling of helplessness can seem unbearable. The Bible promise; "God is close to the brokenhearted." It also says: "Throw your burden on God and he will sustain you." (Psalm 34;18 and 55;22) The Bible gives us hope that one day our dead loved ones will be brought back to life. (John 5;28,29, Revelation 21:4) I hope this message offers comfort in your time of sadness.
