Lisa
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. When we lose a loved one in death feelings of pain and helplessness can overcome us. But we can find hope and be comforted through God's word the Bible. There at John 5:28,29 it says' "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.....". Jehovah God promises us this....so we can have complete confidence in his word. I hope this comforts you.
Lisa